Why Choosing the Right Photographer Matters More Than You Think – And Why I Care So Much About Being That Person for You
Hey lovely!
So, you’re planning your wedding, and somewhere between picking your dream dress and figuring out the seating plan (honestly, good luck with that one 😅), you realise you need to pick a photographer. And not just any photographer—someone you completely trust to capture your once-in-a-lifetime moments.
This isn’t just a job for me. It’s everything to me.
I don’t take it lightly when a couple chooses me to be the one behind the camera on their wedding day. In fact, I feel so deeply invested in every couple’s story that by the time we get to the big day, I feel like I’ve been invited as a friend—an extension of your bridal party, there to hype you up, fix your veil, and capture the raw, real, joyful moments that make your wedding uniquely yours.
The One Day You Can’t Do Over
One of the things I love most about wedding photography is that you only get one chance to get it right. There are no re-dos, no “let’s try that again.” The first time your dad sees you in your dress, the way your partner’s face lights up when you walk down the aisle, that happy chaos of confetti flying everywhere—it all happens in real-time, and it’s gone in a heartbeat.
That’s why I put so much pressure on myself to get it right. It’s my job (and my absolute honour) to pay attention to every tiny detail so that no moment is missed. I notice the way your grandma’s hand gently touches your cheek as she sees you in your dress for the first time. I catch the look of pure love in your partner’s eyes when they think no one else is watching.
My couples always tell me, “You captured moments we didn’t even realise happened.” That’s what I do—I make sure that nothing is forgotten.
More Than a Photographer—A Friend on Your Wedding Day
Your photographer is one of the people you’ll spend the most time with on your wedding day—more than almost anyone else. Think about it: from the morning excitement of getting ready to the dance floor madness at the end of the night, I’ll be right there, quietly (or, let’s be honest, excitedly) capturing it all.
That’s why choosing someone you vibe with is just as important as loving their work. You don’t want a photographer who barks orders at your guests and makes the whole experience feel like a chore. Weddings aren’t just about the photos—they’re about the feeling.
I’m there to bring the energy, calm your nerves, and hype you up when you need it. I’ll be the one making sure you feel comfortable, beautiful, and totally yourself in front of the camera. Whether that means blasting your favourite songs while we do portraits or reminding you to take a deep breath and soak it all in, I’m there to support you.
Why Experience Matters (And Why I Show Up No Matter What)
I’ve been photographing weddings for over a decade now, and in that time, I’ve seen it all. From surprise thunderstorms to last-minute dress disasters, I know how to adapt, stay calm, and keep things running smoothly.
In 12 years, I’ve only ever missed one wedding—and that was because I was in hospital with a burst ovarian cyst (trust me, I would’ve been there if I could have!). The reason I bring this up? Because when you book me, you’re not just getting a photographer—you’re getting someone who shows up for you, no matter what.
Your wedding day is one of the biggest days of your life, and I take the responsibility of capturing it incredibly seriously. You deserve to know that the person you trust with your memories is going to be reliable, dedicated, and 100% there for you.
Timeless Over Trendy—Because These Photos Are For a Lifetime
I know that wedding photography trends come and go, but when you look back at your photos 10, 20, 50 years from now, I want them to feel just as magical as they did on the day.
That’s why my approach is natural, storytelling-focused, and timeless. I don’t rely on over-stylised editing or gimmicky poses. Instead, I focus on capturing the real emotions—the way you laugh with your best friends, the tears in your dad’s eyes, the way your partner looks at you like you’re their whole world.
Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about the photos—it’s about the memories.
What My Couples Say
Still not sure if I’m the right photographer for you? Let me share what some of my amazing couples have said:
“Rebecca was everything we wanted in our wedding photographer and more. On the day itself, there’s no one else you’d want with you—she is so kind and really put us at ease. She is so talented, and the pictures we’ve seen so far are amazing. She really captures the moment organically.”
“Becs was utterly amazing and made our day so special. She felt like a guest at our wedding and made us feel really comfortable! She was amazing on my wedding morning, not only as a photographer but also being there for me mentally and assisting me with whatever I needed.”
“Absolutely sensational!!! Rebecca is the loveliest person. She captured all our memories from start to finish to absolute perfection! She was so, so helpful on the day, reassuring, and provided us with loads of amazing advice to capture the perfect shots while keeping things natural.”
(You can read more here).
Final Thoughts—Make Sure You Pick the Right Person for YOU
Here’s my biggest piece of advice when choosing a wedding photographer:
✔ Make sure you love their work. If you don’t, you won’t love your photos. Simple.
✔ Make sure you actually like them as a person. You’ll be spending a LOT of time with them on your wedding day—make sure they feel like someone you’d want there.
✔ Go with your gut. If you feel a connection with someone, that’s a great sign they’re the right fit for you.
At the end of the day, wedding photography is so much more than just pictures. It’s about capturing the feeling, the love, the laughter, and the once-in-a-lifetime moments that make your day uniquely yours.
And I’d love to be the person to do that for you. 💕
If you’re looking for a photographer who will bring the energy, capture the in-between moments, and make sure you feel incredible every step of the way, let’s chat!
With love,
Becks x
